What area should my family and I move to in the DFW area?!?!?

We are looking to rent for a while before purchasing a home. We also have a one year old so a safe community with good daycares are on the top of our list...but we are also looking for a diverse area, not too far away from shopping/ civilization, and a good area that I can find a job in HR. We are moving from the Atlanta Metro area where weekday commute can be an hour plus.....not trying to do that again. Help!!! DFW is so big that I can't wrap my head around one particular area.